I am passing this blog post on from Melissa Grant so it will get into more groups.
Please help!
Fundraising Efforts for David Wilder, close friend to AR Member Jason Crouch
*Breaking news, I AM SELLING 10,000 POINTS TO HELP AR MEMBER JASON CROUCH'S FRIEND..PLEASE READ AND JOIN THE EXCITEMENT OF WATCHING MY POINTS GO BYE BYE Hurry over to Melissa Grants post and see where her points go!
To some degree we have all fallen on hard times in our slower market. We try to find money saving idea's, lower cost items and ways to save gas, save on groceries. We wonder when things will get back to normal. When business will speed up, where we can capture our next lead. To many of us these are all challenging task's.
But, what about the onewho simply can't help and simply cannot or don't know how to help themselves. The one's who were handed cards in this game of life that they can't play. With the wild joker missing from the deck they have no means to make the hand needed to win let alone get ahead.
I don't know if you all know Jason Crouch, Founder of the Active Rain group Family Ties . I am not sure if you have read about his friend David Wilder ? If you have not you can follow his many links here to read more about David : You can read Jason's latest post here Another update on my friend and my mother-in-law
A Day of Clarity for my Family
Update on my mother-in-law Jackie and my friend David
Another update on Jackie and David
Update on David and Jackie - The Power of Prayer
Jason has not only been faced with trying to help his mother-in-law but he is also faced with a Dear Friend who has been battling Cancer. David has undergone two bouts with cancer over the past year, both involving his throat and mouth. His tongue was completely removed, along with his vocal chords and larynx.
Jason has given his all in trying to be their both for his family and his friend. He has exhausted himself with his efforts to show great humanity.
I recently spoke with Jason about his friend. Cancer is very close to home with me. My grandfather passed away 5 weeks from his diagnosis of cancer. There was nothing that could be done for him. The cancer had long reached his brain and invaded all the organs needed to live ( it started in his stomach ). That day I lost my best friend and I will never forget it.
David Wilder and his wife Jan are struggling. David physically cannot work. Nor can he speak. His wife is care-taker for her husband and can only work part-time at their small local church. This family has no medical insurance and with every passing day are sinking further and further in debt. The daily routine sometimes consist's of how they will buy food, robbing Peter to pay Paul for medication, food, and other household bills on a small part-time income.
If you have ever been a care-taker for a friend or family member with an illness you are familiar with the greatest need for strength and the will to fight along side a person with such illness/disease. Please lift up as many thoughts and prayers you can for David's wife...Jan Wilder
I have never battled Cancer but I have sat along side my grandfather and many patients with Cancer when I was in the medical field. Their lively-hood is abruptly taken from them. For the man, who was once the head of the household leaves him depressed and often feeling worthless. David NEEDS the will to survive...please lift him up in all of your thoughts and prayers....So, what can we do as a friend, a neighbor. We can pray..we can join in the efforts to fight against Cancer...finding a cure...we can reach out to someone in great need and lift them up, lift their spirits and give them hope.
I have volunteered to purchase materials and make "Friendship Pins" as a fund-raising effort for Jason. Each pin will cost a small amount of $10.00 and ALL PROCEEDS will go directly to David and his wife Jan.
Friendship Pins have been around as long as I can remember. You know the ones you made with pins and beads and passed them around to your "best friends". When I was in school the purpose of your friendship pin was to show how much you cared for someone and appreciated them. When you made a new friend you passed the torch ( your pin ) on to them out of appreciation and respect. Friendship pins are a great torch to pass on to someone when you see a person in need or need to make someone's day.

Please purchase your Friendship Pin for David. For the small amount of $10.00. Keep your pin or pass it along to someone else who needs to have a brighter day. Purchasing your Friendship Pin is helping David in his fight against cancer. You can purchase more than 1 pin. If you would rather purchase 1 pin and make a donation to him as well this is all appreciated and will help David and his wife tremendously. If you would like to receive Friendship Pins to place within your office to help with our fund-raising efforts please email me at lissalgrant@yahoo.com and I will be happy to provide as many as you need to process your request. If you are in Jason's area and could set up a food bank/donation bucket at your office please email me at lissalgrant@yahoo.com and I will help to coordinate this for you. Of course, if you have idea's or ways to help please email me at lissalgrant@yahoo.com and I will gladly help coordinate any efforts.
Directions :
Please copy and paste and print out the form below :
David and Jan Wilder, our thoughts and prayers are with you !
My name is __________________________________________
( if you would prefer to remain anonymous please leave this blank)
I would like to order ____ friendship pins
Address to send pin to : _____________________
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I am enclosing $______.00 as an added donation to you and your family
Special Note to David and Jan Wilder :
____________________________________________________
____________________________________________________
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Enclose your check or money order : If using Paypal please specify in your comment section how many friendship pins you would like to purchase and leave a small uplifting note for David and Jan.
PayPal donations should be sent to : jwilder_99@yahoo.com
( Please allow 7-10 days for your friendship pin to be processed and shipped )
*************Friendship Pins will come in a variety of colors, shapes and sizes.**************
Please mail your order form to :
JASON CROUCH
20001 Fargo Terrace,
Pflugerville, TX 78660.
( Jason will be collecting the envelopes, passing along all proceeds and supplying me with the information needed to process your Friendship Pin (s) )
Make Checks and/or Money Orders out to :
JAN WILDER
Thank you all in advance for a beautiful job in helping both David and Jan Wilder....

Lenders caught in the sub-prime melt down are closing their doors while banks and prime lenders are tightening loan requirements. Mortgage rates are rising and PMI (private mortgage insurance) showing industry wide narrowing of guidelines and options all contribute to the general "panic" atmosphere buyers perceive in the Brentwood TN Real Estate market as well as other areas.
light and you have one big roller coaster ride, complete with stomach dropping fluctuations in the stock and bond markets. The FED has slashed rates attempting to hold off a recession that some say is already here. Too little too late? Will it get worse from here?
I foresee 3rd and 4th quarter rises as the market adjusts and evens out more.
spring season is almost here, now is the time to take the plunge.
Buyers educate yourselves on the "real" numbers and take a pass on the news headlines decrying doom and gloom for buyers in general. The media is in full panic monger mode and nothing sells like recession fear!
, pick up the phone,

fingers lovingly through his thick red curly hair. 'Would you like a lock of his hair?' the nurse asked. Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of the boy's hair, put it in a plastic bag and handed it to Sally. The mother said, 'It was Jimmy's idea to donate his body to the University for Study. He said it might help somebody else. 'I said no at first, but Jimmy said, ' Mom, I won't be using it after I die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend one more day with his Mom.' She went on, 'My Jimmy had a heart of gold, Always thinking of someone else, Always wanting to help others if he could.'
Dear Mom , I know you're going to miss me; but don't think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving you, just 'cause I'm not around to say 'I Love You'. I will always love you, Mom, even more with each day. Someday we will see each other again. Until then, if you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely, that's okay with me. He can have my room and old stuff to play with. But, if you decide to get a girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls and stuff girls like, you know. Don't be sad thinking about me. This really is a neat place. Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me around some, but it will take a long time to see everything. The angels are so cool. I love to watch them fly. And, you know what? Jesus doesn't look like any of his pictures. Yet, when I saw Him, I knew it was Him. Jesus himself took me to see GOD! And guess what, Mom? I got to sit on God's knee and talk to Him, like I was somebody important. That's when I told Him that I wanted to write you a letter, to tell you good bye and everything. But I already knew that wasn't allowed. Well, you know what Mom? God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter. I think Gabriel is the
name of the angel who is going to drop this letter off to you. God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked Him 'Where was He when I needed him?' 'God said He was in the same place with me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was right there, as He always is with all His children. Oh, by the way, Mom, no one else can see what I've written except you. To everyone else this is just a blank piece of paper. Isn't that cool? I have to give God His pen back now He needs it to write some more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm sure the food will be great. 
and a conniption fit, and that you don't "HAVE" them, you "PITCH" them.

Even Southern babies know that "Gimme some sugar" is not a request for the white, granular sweet substance that sits in a pretty little bowl in the middle of the table.
they know the concept well.
Only a Southerner knows instinctively that the best gesture of solace for a neighbor who's got trouble is a plate of hot fried chicken and a big bowl of cold potato salad. If the neighbor's trouble is a real crisis, they also know to add a large banana puddin! 
white trash.
No true Southerner would ever assume that the car with the flashing turn signal is actually going to make a turn.
... and when we're "in line," . we talk to everybody!
Southerners know grits come from corn and how to eat them. Every Southerner knows tomatoes with eggs, bacon, grits, and coffee are perfectly wonderful; that red eye gravy is also a breakfast food; and that fried green tomatoes are not a breakfast food.
Sweet tea indicates the need for sugar and lots of it -- we do not like our tea unsweetened. "Sweet milk" means you don't want buttermilk.
And a true Southerner knows you don't scream obscenities at little old ladies who drive 30 MPH on the freeway. You just say, "Bless her heart" ... and go your own way.
revivals and a dose of sausage gravy and call me in the morning. Bless your heart!
Then look up tonight about 8:45 CST. The partial eclipse will start around 7:30 pm. The entire event will be over by 11 or so and if you miss it it will not come again until December 2010. If the skies are clear you could see varying colors from orange, red, brown or drk gray. Grab the kids and show them too! If you would like to see it clearer, make a family night of it and visit the